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Can’t Stand Your Spouse?

See a Marriage Counseling for Help

When you can no longer meet eye to eye with your spouse or can’t talk without shouting or, worse, you are avoiding each other, it is time to see do a marriage counseling. It is always worth a try to make things work out.

Give time for counseling

No matter how busy you both are, make time for marriage counseling. Regrets always come after what has been done or what has not been done. It may be that you can’t stand each other but you need to find the root cause of this. Lack of communication is one or maybe you can’t understand each other. There must be something why you don’t get along anymore. Giving time for each other to make things work out will be a big step to make for you and your spouse. Make the most of it.

Remember how it was

Do you remember when you first met? Why did you fall in love with each other? Did you not make a vow to love and hold one another through sickness and in health, through good and bad times? Before looking at the other’s faults, why not look at what brought you together? Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Just because you act like cats and dogs, it doesn’t give you an excuse to throw away your marriage. Marriage counseling will help you in a lot of ways than you can think of.

Be positive

Instead of pointing a finger at each other, find your own fault. Look at your actions. Better yet, put yourself in your spouse’s shoes and see what went wrong. Be understanding and try to see your future. Are you really letting this end? Do you really see yourself without the other in the future? Being married is a lifelong commitment. What makes you think that leaving your spouse and starting another relationship will work this time? There never is a guarantee.

Before things get worse, get in touch with a counselor. We highly recommend Koepke Marriage And Family & Mental Health Counseling, PLLC. Our clients never thought they would get back again, if it weren’t for my help. Visit my office at Erie County, NY and let me help you.

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